Jonathan and Pricylia

Jonathan & Pricylia

A love story in 125,070 messages

May 31, 2025 — March 24, 2026 · 297 days

518,863 words — that’s 6.5 novels, or one very real love story

59,780His messages
65,290Her messages
422Per day
1,683Conversations

Our Story

May 31 – Jun 10, 2025

Phase 1: Salam Kenal

~900 messages. Kevin Phang and Katherine play matchmaker, connecting an AI strategist from Ancol with a fashion designer from Makassar. The first text lands at 12:28 PM.

“Hi Pricylia, this is Jonathan 👋”

The First Conversation

Jonathan 2025-05-31 12:28

Hi Pricylia, this is Jonathan 👋

Jonathan 2025-05-31 12:28

Got introduced to you by kevin phang and katherine

Jonathan 2025-05-31 12:28

Nice to meet you!

Jonathan 2025-05-31 12:29

Katanya you're big into fashion ya? Wah that's great, unfortunately its something I'm not very knowledgeable on hahaha

Pricylia 2025-05-31 12:47

Hi, Jonathan! Iyaa kemarin Kath udah infoin juga. Salam kenal 👋

Pricylia 2025-05-31 12:47

Iya nih kebetulan passionnya disana hehe i’m still learning too.

Jonathan 2025-05-31 12:47

Salam kenal! 😊

Pricylia 2025-05-31 12:48

Haha it’s okay. We all have our own thing. Kalo kamu di AI ya katanya

Jonathan 2025-05-31 12:48

Iya betul

Jonathan 2025-05-31 12:48

Background nya emng computer science and dari dulu emng suka main2 computer gitu

Outdoor together

Jun 11 – Aug 15, 2025

Phase 2: The Slow Burn

~12,000 messages. First date at Chadol (Korean BBQ), then arcade dates, painting cups, cooking fattoush. Five to six meetups that build a foundation brick by brick.

“Oke boleh. Next on me ya! Mau coto kan?”
Pottery date

Aug 15 – Oct 31, 2025

Phase 3: Getting Closer

~31,000 messages. Dubai travel conversations, the dice date concept debuts, “Bolang” becomes their word. Vulnerability enters the chat — real fears, real stories, real selves.

“Little miss Perfect Prophet Pythia Pricylia the Passionate Puzzle-Piecing Princess...”
Night together

Nov 1 – 30, 2025

Phase 4: November 15

23,043 messages. The month everything changes. Official on November 15 at 23:34. Ecopark Ancol, a gondola ride, 4 red cars in the parking lot. Kath and Kevin called it.

“15 nov, 23.34 ❤️”
Restaurant date

Dec 2025 – Jan 2026

Phase 5: Falling Hard

~38,600 messages. First “I love you” on December 10. The ‘di semua tempat’ moment on December 30. NYE love letters. Missing each other physically hurts.

“Di semua galaxy, di semua universe, di semua timeline, aku akan tetap pilih kamu.”
Jonathan

Feb – Mar 2026

Phase 6: Us, Now

~25,000 messages. Building together, monthly check-ins on the 15th, shared routines, inside jokes that don’t need explaining anymore. Still getting butterflies.

“4 months with you, and I still feel butterflies!!!”

Our Rituals

☀️
488 Good Mornings
🌙
976 Good Nights
💗
1,354 “Sayang”
😭
365 “Kangen”
🍜
64 “Udah Makan?”
🚗
“Hati2 di Jln”

The Language of Care

“Jangan lupa”
P: 37
J: 9
“Jaga”
P: 68
J: 25
“Istirahat”
Total: 123
“Minum air”
Total: 37

Pet Name Cloud

sayang (1183) lucu (799) cute (342) cantik (126) say (117) syg (114) cutie (86) ganteng (85) manis (62) baby (52)

Their Shared Phrases

“lucu bgt” 316x
“bgt bgt” 151x
“suka bgt” 150x
“enak bgt” 133x
“iya bener” 126x
“let me” 123x
“btr lg” 107x
“ko den” 99x

Our Numbers

Monthly Message Volume

Hourly Activity (WIB)

Love Words Over Time

Message Calendar — 298 Days

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Lighter = fewer messages · Darker = more messages · Peak: 2,033 on 2026-01-17

Topic DNA

174 Day streak (and counting)
6.9h Longest marathon (679 msgs)
396 Jonathan’s longest burst
8,334 Pricylia’s excited messages (6x more)

Emoji Battle

Jonathan (1,212 total)

😁 69 🫠 61 51 🤣 50 😱 36 🍉 31 🫥 31 😏 30

Pricylia (18,651 total)

🤣 3062 😂 2238 2210 🤏 1876 😭 856 🥹 802 🤪 649 🙂 636

The Frameworks

Sternberg’s Triangle of Love

Love Languages

Gottman Analysis

139.6:1 Positivity Ratio (healthy ≥ 5:1)
6,978 Positive interactions
50 Negative interactions
95% Bid response rate
95%
Bid response rate
You turn toward each other 95% of the time. Gottman says 86% predicts a lasting marriage.

Four Horsemen (criticism, contempt, defensiveness, stonewalling): Absent

Attachment Styles

Jonathan

Primary: Secure

Secondary: Mild anxious tendencies

Shows up as checking in frequently, long reflective messages at night, building elaborate plans to show care.

Pricylia

Primary: Secure

Secondary: Mild early avoidant tendencies

Initially slower to open up, but once committed, becomes the most consistent presence in the chat.

Emotional Labor Balance

Jonathan: The Logistics Lead

Plans 70% of dates, coordinates schedules, researches restaurants, builds the frameworks.

“Jangan lupa”: 9x · “Jaga”: 25x

Pricylia: The Health Monitor

Tracks his sleep, eating, hydration. Full-name scolds when he overworks. Remembers every timestamp.

“Jangan lupa”: 37x · “Jaga”: 68x · “Istirahat”: majority of 123

That’s So Us

1

The Coto Confession

May 31, 2025

Pricylia

Oke boleh. Next on me ya! Mau coto kan?

Jonathan

Yess coto!! You know the way to my heart already 😂

They planned their second date before the first one was even over. The coto quest began here.

2

The Ranking Bully Story

Jul 18, 2025

Pricylia

Dia ranking 1!! Tp dr belakang.

Jonathan

HAHAHAHAHA nooo that's so mean 😂

Pricylia

And I feel bad bc I was one of the bullies HAHAHA

She was ranking 1 from the back. And she told this story with zero shame.

3

The Novel Reveal

Jul 4, 2025

Jonathan

Wait you write novels??

Pricylia

Iya hehe.. receh indo novels for middle age mums

Jonathan

That is actually amazing

Wait — Jonathan writes novels? For middle-aged Indonesian mums? This man contains multitudes.

4

TikTok Screen Record

Jul 15, 2025

Jonathan

Wait did you screen record TikToks for me?

Pricylia

Iya dong biar kamu ga download appnya HAHA

She screen-recorded TikToks so he wouldn't have to download the app. If that's not love, what is?

5

The Alliteration Masterpiece

Oct 8, 2025

Jonathan

Little miss Perfect Prophet Pythia Pricylia the Passionate Puzzle-Piecing Princess of Perseverance and Profundity...

When an ENTP discovers alliteration and has a crush. 27 P-words in a single sentence. Peak Jonathan.

6

The Jadian Moment

Nov 16, 2025

Pricylia

15 nov, 23.34 ❤️

Jonathan

The best timestamp of my life

She wrote down the exact minute: 23:34. Of course she did.

7

The Full-Name Scolding

Sep 20, 2025

Pricylia

jonathan leslie kurniawan mending kamu istirahat

Jonathan

Full name... I know I'm in trouble 😅

Full government name deployed. You know she means business.

8

Kath's Prophecy

Nov 16, 2025

Jonathan

Kath and Kevin literally saw this coming

Pricylia

HAHAHA they called it before we did

Kath saw it coming. Everyone saw it coming.

9

Di Semua Tempat

Dec 30, 2025

“Di semua tempat sayang. Di semua galaxy, di semua universe, di semua timeline, aku akan tetap pilih kamu.”

In every place, darling. In every galaxy, in every universe, in every timeline, I would still choose you.

— Jonathan

10

CC's Observation

Nov 17, 2025

Pricylia

CC bilang aku tmbh cntik since jadian

Jonathan

See? Love suits you 😊

CC said she got prettier. The evidence was right there.

11

The Lovesick Exchange

Jan 2, 2026

Pricylia

I miss you so much it hurtssssss 😭

Jonathan

Samaaaa. It physically hurts.

When kangen becomes a physical thing.

12

NYE Love Letter

Jan 1, 2026

Jonathan

If this isn't love, I don't know what is

Pricylia

It IS love, sayang ❤️

NYE, 2025 turning to 2026, and she wrote it all down.

13

The Dream Confession

Nov 17, 2025

Jonathan

I dreamt about you on the plane

Pricylia

AWWW that's so sweet 🥺

He dreamt about her on the plane. At 35,000 feet.

14

The 4-Month Letter

Mar 15, 2026

Jonathan

4 months with you, and I still feel butterflies!!!

Pricylia

Me too sayang. Every single day ❤️

Four months in. Still got butterflies.

Top 5 Funniest Conversations

🌶️ The Samyang Airplane Disaster

May 31, 2025 — Day One

Jonathan ate 2x spicy Samyang before a flight. "Pas di pesawat pas ada turbulence, ada lah brpa kali udah rasanya plszz can i just land." Pricylia's response: "Tp kalo ada makanan pedes lg ttp aja makan lg udh ga igt pain sblmnya."

🎲 The Dream That Solved the Game

Jul 3, 2025

Pricylia literally dreamed the answer to their 2-truth-1-lie game. "Should i follow my dream lol.. Saking penasarannya HAHA malah kebawa mimpi." Jonathan: "Your dream is incredible! Bisa tau aja."

🎤 The Dangdut Confession

Jun 7, 2025

Both pretending to be above dangdut music, then: "Aku smpe nyari lagu ayu ting ting skalian lol." Exposed.

🍜 The Dimsum AI Summary

Mar 23, 2026

Jonathan showing AI tools summarizing their conversations, Pricylia: "nnt lia nya disayang2." Jonathan: "Pricylia aja disayang2, AI nya kerja aja hahahaha."

Who Are We

J

Jonathan Leslie Kurniawan

MBTI: ENTP · From: Jakarta (Ancol) · Passion: AI & Technology

Comfort food: Hokben (phone: 500505)

Spice level: Samyang 2x spicy before flights

Superpower: Frameworks for everything, alliteration poems, making introverts open up

Quirk: Red cars as lucky omens, 11:11 moments, Pokemon tournament competitor

Love style: Builds things for her — dice games, trivia nights, whole websites, AI agents with her name

Emotional register: “Hehehe”, “Wahh”, “Duhh” (76x), philosophical paragraphs at 3am

P

Pricylia Viliavirta Sutanto

MBTI: INFJ (“aku tetep J soalnya Jonathan”) · From: Makassar · Passion: Fashion Design

Comfort food: Sushi Tei (besties give sushi platters for her birthday)

Spice level: Level 0.5 — upgraded from “anak 5 tahun” to “anak 8 tahun”

Superpower: Making everyone feel safe, Othello champion, dramas at 1.5x speed

Quirk: Gets lost easily, goes to KFC for nasi uduk not chicken, almost burned kitchen

Love style: Takes care of him — “jangan lupa minum air”, records exact timestamps, sends stickers at 2am

Emotional register: “HAHAHAHA” (9,680x), 🤏 (949x), “LOL” at end of serious statements

Steel: Iron and Zinc

He’s the one with 27 alliterations; she’s the one who makes sure he ate before writing them. He plans the dice date; she records the timestamp of when it mattered. They just work — like iron and zinc. Better together than apart.

Inside Jokes Glossary

Kiasu
Hokkien/Singaporean slang meaning 'afraid to lose.' Used to describe competitive moments.
Bolang
Short for 'bocah petualang' (adventure kid). What they call each other when exploring.
Roll the Dice
Jonathan's signature date planning: literal dice rolls to pick activities.
Onti Tingting
Eden's (nephew) babble that became a couple catchphrase.
Four-Leaf Clover
Jonathan spotted 4 red cars the night they became official. Lucky omen.
Pricyl AI
Jonathan built an AI agent named after her. The ultimate tech-bro love letter.
Level 0.5
Pricylia's spice tolerance — upgraded from 'anak 5 tahun' to 'anak 8 tahun.'
11:11
They text each other every time they catch 11:11 on the clock. Without fail.

How We Changed Each Other

What Jonathan picked up from Pricylia

  • 🥤 Actually drinks water now (after 100+ "minum air" reminders)
  • 👗 Asks her opinion on clothes — "as a complete newbie"
  • 🍲 Became a Makassar food explorer (from not knowing what coto was)
  • 🎵 Admitted to searching for Ayu Ting Ting songs
  • 💕 Started calling her "sayang" because she said she liked it

What Pricylia picked up from Jonathan

  • 🤖 From "aku ga gt paham AI" to calling his AI tools "ur baby"
  • 🧠 Uses his frameworks back at him — "flownya bagus, kayak yg km blg"
  • 🍊 Started eating pomegranate because he recommended it
  • 🏄 Went kayaking and cycling — things outside her comfort zone
  • 💬 Feels safe to speak up: "sbgai org yg jarang omongin apa yg aku pikirin, i feel safe to tell you anything"

What We Dream About

✈️ Coto trip to Makassar — the quest that started on day one
🇯🇵 Japan together — both have special connections there
🏠 Rumah 1 tingkat yg panjang ke belakang — her dream house
🎬 Home theatre — his goal, "yg buagus bgt"
👗 Bikin wedding dressku sendiri — she wants to design her own
🏡 BBQ house with board games — he wants to be the third space for friends
🌏 Korea together — both have special attachment
🎪 Jakarta Fashion Week — "ini yg paling aku pengenin"

101 Facts About Us

Showing first 10 — tap below to see all 101

The Firsts

1 They were introduced by Kevin Phang and Katherine. Jonathan and Kevin were university friends at UNSW Sydney.

Got introduced to you by kevin phang and katherine

2 Their first message was on 31 May 2025 at 12:28 pm when Jonathan texted 'Hi Pricylia, this is Jonathan'.

Hi Pricylia, this is Jonathan 👋

3 They became officially a couple on 15 November 2025 at 11:34 PM (23:34). Pricylia noted down the exact time.

Cie yg baru jadian... U know i catet tgl dan jam nya when u ask lol. 15 nov, 23.34

4 Pricylia's birthday is 17 September (born 1995, turned 30 in 2025). She spent it at her sister's house with Eden.

Big 30 harus ada something different dong... hope you had a great birthday!

5 Jonathan's 4 moments that made him fall for Pricylia: 1) her insane luck winning things, 2) their constant same-braincell moments, 3) the cup painting date, 4) their first kiss where she was shocked.

1st: kamu menang lucknya keterlaluan... 2nd: the 10th time kita same braincell... 3rd: kamu ajak aku painting cup... 4th: 1st kiss 😘 trus km shock sendiri

6 Their first kiss was unplanned. Pricylia thought it would be just a cheek kiss. Jonathan said he had no plan either - they were both shocked.

Iya shock. Sejak kapan 😭 duh km yg arahin kah hahaha aku kira cm ur pipi... No i had no plan, aku jg shock

7 Pricylia's sister said they 'look super happy' in their first photo together on the night they became official.

My sis said kt look super happy

8 Their first physical meet (at Chadol) ended at 1:37 AM. Jonathan drove 45 minutes home. She called it 'insightful.'

Thanks for tonight, I had a good time... Ok thank youu juga!! Insightful bgt today lol

Date Adventures

9 Their first date was dinner at Chadol (Korean BBQ) on 11 June 2025. Jonathan worked at Joe & Dough cafe next door while waiting.

Confirming we're still up for dinner today at Chadol ya... Kerja di joe & dough yg sblhnya

10 After the first Chadol date, Pricylia offered to pay for the next outing: coto Makassar.

Oke boleh. Next on me ya! Mau coto kan?

11 Their second date was an arcade date at Cow Play Cow Moo in Pluit Village on 12 July 2025.

Di pluit village di cow play cow moo... Udh dpan cow play nya nii

12 The arcade date included fun games, deep talks, emotional topics, karaoke, food, and ended with basketball.

Mixed of fun, deep talks, emotional topics, and karoke session... List terakhir nya main basket wkwkwkkwkwkwkw

13 Their third date was on 26 July 2025: lunch at Pelangi Menteng (coto), then Taman Ismail Marzuki, then painting/pottery at fX.

Should we get lunch at Pelangi Menteng, then Taman Ismail, then painting with pottery?

14 They painted cups together on the Taman Ismail date. Pricylia's cup had a handle, Jonathan's did not. They later exchanged the cups.

Oh iya ya our painted cups!... Forksnya next time aja kalo ktmu. Skalian ngasih cup kamu juga

15 Jonathan cooked Ottolenghi's fattoush salad for Pricylia, introducing her to Lebanese food for the first time.

Apa aku masak aja... Lunch nya diprovide sm chef jonathaannnn

16 They went canoeing/kayaking together on 4 October 2025, booking a guided canoe trip for 370k per person.

Should be good to go kayaking haha... Kalo yg explore 370k pp

17 They went to a music festival together (standing, Pricylia's first time standing at a festival).

Music fest seru. Finally bisa nntn fest standing hihi happy

18 They rode a gondola together, and Jonathan told Pricylia she looked beautiful on it.

Km di gondola cakep bgt... KATA KAMU AKU CNTIK DI GONDOLA

19 They went cycling (bicycle) together as one of their dates.

the jar for my bday, the tickets, the kayak, the music festival, the bicycle and gondola

20 They visited Ecopark Ancol together on 15 November 2025 - the day they became official.

Aku ke ecopark ya... Cie yg baru jadian

21 Jonathan uses the 'dice date' concept: rolling a literal die to randomly choose which area/restaurant to go to for dates.

Kita taro smua criteria... Then, we roll a dice and see where it lands!

Food & Cravings

22 Pricylia's cici (sister) always celebrates at Sunachi restaurant.

Slalu rayainnya di sunachi hahaha

23 Pricylia's go-to comfort food in Jakarta is bsteak. Her cici and brother-in-law also love it.

Dlu aku sering bgt gofood bsteak... Itu jg resto kesukaan my cc and ipar

Music & Entertainment

24 Pricylia's #1 K-pop group is BTOB. She would go to their concert if they came to Indonesia.

Kalo aku top #1 ku BTOB namanya. Kalo dia concert di indo aku bakal kesanaaa

25 Pricylia also loves the K-pop group Treasure. Her top 1 song from them is 'G.O.A.T.' which she describes as 'brisik bgt tp sukaaaaa.'

Aku suka kpop grup yg namanya Treasure, my top 1 dr mrk itu jdulnya G.O.A.T. Itu brisik bgt tp sukaaaaa banget

26 Jonathan's go-to Indonesian artists are Tulus, Sheila on 7, and Weird Genius.

Kalo indo artist, maybe my fav would be, tulus, sheila on 7, lagu2 karoke hahahahaha. Also lagu2 weird genius

27 Jonathan's old-school K-pop favorites: Big Bang, SS501, Fly to the Sky, Epik High, Younha.

My goto back in the day was bigbang, ss501, fly to the sky, epik high, younha

28 Pricylia learned K-pop songs by playing Audition AyoDance (online dance game).

Aku tau kpop songs dari main audition ayodance HAHAHA

29 Pricylia's go-to karaoke song is APT. She's only been to karaoke 3-4 times in her life.

Sukanya yg lagu berisik skalian sih spy seru. APT sih paling menarik... Aku jarang bgt ke karaoke kyknya cm 3-4x seumur hdup

30 'Cari Jodoh' became an inside joke song associated with them after the arcade date karaoke session.

Trus ntr km malah keinget aku tiap keputer lagu cari jodoh

31 Pricylia's first concert ever was Mamamoo (2023), and she got a free ticket because her cousin's dad wouldn't let the cousin go alone.

Sppu aku di mks suka bgt girlgroup mamamoo... papanya ga izinin dia ke jkt... akhrny dia blg bakal suruh aku yg nemenin, akhrny dpt izin deh. Aku dibeliin juga

32 Pricylia's second concert was Blackpink, also free. She has the 'midas touch' for concert tickets.

Trus second concert ku blackpink, itu juga free... Kamu blessed with the midas touch for musical tickets

33 Pricylia's #1 anime/manga is Detective Conan. She calls Conan her 'first crush.'

Tetep my first crush, conan. Ahhahahaahahaha

34 Pricylia's top K-drama of all time is Arthdal Chronicles. Her sister knows by heart how much she talks about it.

1. Arthdal of Chronicles... Tp arthdal sih best. Ccku smpe hapal bgt aku slalu ngomong

35 Pricylia's full top 9 K-drama list: 1. Arthdal Chronicles, 2. Romantic Doctor Teacher Kim, 3. Mouse, 4. 2521, 5. Our Beloved Summer, 6. Hospital Playlist, 7. Descendant of the Sun, 8. 365 Repeat a Year, 9. Ruler Master of Mask.

1. Arthdal of Chronicles (2 seasons) 2. Romantic Doctor Teacher Kim (3 seasons) 3. Mouse 4. 2521...

36 Pricylia re-watched Romantic Doctor Teacher Kim 2-3 times for each of the 3 seasons.

Teacher kim too🥹 3 seasons, aku ulang kayaknya 2-3x each seasons

37 Pricylia prefers K-drama genres: thriller, crime, and medical. She dislikes fantasy except for Goblin (because of her fav actor).

Aku drakor plg suka genre thriller crime and medical pny... Oh ntnn goblin jg tp ada aktor favku jd aku nonton juga

38 The only movie that stressed Pricylia out was Hotel Mumbai. She got a headache watching it.

The only movie yg bkin aku stress nntn kayaknya cm Hotel Mumbai!! Aku nonton sampe sakit kepala

39 Pricylia's first movie in a cinema was a horror film (Hantu Kasablanka) during her 6th grade graduation celebration.

film prtama yg aku ntnn di bioskop malah film horor... Hantu kasablanka apa gitu. Soalnya sd aku blakangnya lsg tmpt bioskop

40 Pricylia watches shows at 1.5x speed, which is why she doesn't enjoy cinemas.

Thats why aku ga gtu enjoy bioskop!... Film korea juga di 1.5x speed?

Family & Friends

41 Ko Den (Pricylia's brother-in-law, full name Denny) loves Julius Caesar, Alexander the Great, and Hannibal Barca. Eden was almost named Hannibal.

Ko den suka julius caesar, alexander the great, hannibal barca... Hampir namanya eden jd hannibal

42 Eden (nephew) was born around 19 July 2024 (turned 1 on 19 July 2025). Pricylia is called 'Onti' (aunty) by Eden.

Happy bday eden btw... For eden's 1st bday, i made him into a currency

43 Pricylia's sister (CC) is 3.5 years older than her.

Aku 2 bsodara. Ada cici ku beda 3.5 thn

44 Pricylia's papa used to bring her Susu Ultra every day for school. Her school friends memorized it. She'd always bring 2 but only drink 1 and share.

Susu ultra is loveee. Tp emg dr dlu aku tuh slalu dibawain susu ultra buat mnum di skolah sm papa aku 😂 smpe temen ku sll hafal

45 Pricylia's CC birth certificate says 'Ujung Pandang' (old name), while Pricylia's says 'Makassar' (new name) - showing the city name change happened between their births.

Kalo cceku dlu masuknya masih lahir di Ujung Pandang kalo pas aku udah berubah ke Makassar

46 Eden (at under 1 year old) already tries to race Pricylia in crawling. Pricylia protested they have a 29-year age difference.

Trus aku protes sm eden blg dia curang soalnya kt beda 29tahun

Inside Jokes & Quirks

47 Pricylia's bazi reading advised her to never try alcohol or she could become an addict. She has never had beer, only wine tasting at family CNY/Xmas events.

Dlu diblg jgn pernah coba alkhol ya krn bisa bget jd pecandu lol. Makanya smpe skg belom pernah coba 🤣!!... Tp kalo beer2 gt never

48 Pricylia owns a custom Hello Kitty bowling ball (3kg) with finger holes made to fit her, bought by her cousin.

Dlu itu dibeliin sm spupu, dibuatin bola bowlingnya ssuai buletan jari aku gitu yg pas. Yg beratnya cm 3kg. Bowlingnya gmbr hello kitty

49 Pricylia once tried driving a becak (pedicab) in high school and crashed into a door.

Aku dlu iseng bawa becak aja jaman SMP apa SMA, nabrak pintu

50 Pricylia won the Othello championship for her entire school year in SMP (middle school).

Dulu juara othelo seangkatan pas SMP

51 Pricylia nearly burned down her kitchen: she forgot boiling water on the stove for 15-20 min until the water evaporated and the pot scorched.

Gila bgt td aku lg masak air tp aku lupaaaa. Air nya sampe habis dan panci gosong

52 They have a recurring '11:11' moment: both notice and message each other whenever the clock hits 11:11. Jonathan especially loves it.

11.11 ✨️💆‍♂️... Why u demen bgt 11.11

53 They frequently experience 'same braincell' moments - texting each other the exact same thing at the same time.

Same braincell bgt... Freaky how I thought it and then your message popped up haha

54 Jonathan calls Pricylia 'udang kepanasan' (overheated shrimp) as a pet name, because she blushes bright red.

Goodnight udang kepanasan... SIAPA YG BKIN AKU JD UDANG REBUS AYO COBA ANGKT TGN

55 Pricylia calls Jonathan 'Jonachu' (like Pikachu). She once described what her Jonachu tamagotchi would do.

Jonachuu hug hug... my jonachu would charge me with happiness, give me warm hugs when im tired

56 After the Pelangi date, Jonathan secretly took many candid photos of Pricylia. She didn't notice until he shared them all late at night.

Btw ternyata ada bnyk foto2 lucu jg with you being the muse... Idk km foto byk bgt trnyt?!! Ga sadar km foto

57 Pricylia's bazi reading recommended she pursue a career in TV/entertainment, saying she'd be suited as an 'artis' (celebrity).

yg aku blg prnah baca bazi, dia rekomen aku pursue karir di tv wkwk katanya aku cocok jd artissssss

58 Pricylia has followed badminton since 2008. She watches World Tours live in Jakarta and once sat in the front rows at the cinema watching badminton until her neck hurt.

Aku emg udah ikutin badmin dari 2008 smpe skg... Dlu igt nonton di bioskop sampe duduk 2 terdepan. kelar nntn leher pegel

59 Pricylia joined a BTOB fan community in Jakarta in early 2024, going alone without knowing anyone, as part of overcoming her shyness.

Baca di twitter ada kmpul2 fans btob lol. Aku lsg join 🤣 Ga kenal at all siapapun, ikut aja. Trus aku ajak ngmg

60 Jonathan saw 4 red cars in a row at Pricylia's parking lot on the night they became official - he considers this a lucky sign.

Aku td liat ada 4 red cars di parking lot km... Jd very good day today jg hahaha

61 Pricylia's Makassar slang: 'kasih bunuh itu lampu' (kill that lamp = turn off the light), 'kasih cantik' (make it pretty), 'lombok' for sambal/chili.

'matiin lampu' kita blgnya 'kasih bunuh itu lampu'... Aku blg 'kasih cantik ya tapi'

62 In Makassar, stale kerupuk (crackers) are described as 'kerupuk masuk angin' (crackers that caught a cold).

Tp kalo di mks blgnya kerupuknya masuk angin 🤏😭

63 Jonathan competed in Pokemon tournaments but 'wasnt any good.'

Fun fact : i once competed in pokemon tournaments, wasnt any good tho jd ga kmna2

64 Pricylia suggested a monthly relationship check-in every 15th: appreciating each other and discussing growth areas as individuals and as a couple.

Kayaknya bagus juga kalo tiap bulan tgl 15... kayak ada monthly check in ttg our relationship, its like eh sbulan ini kt apa aja ya yg perlu kt appreciate

65 Pricylia is self-described as 'anak rumahan' (homebody) who rarely eats out or goes to cafes, and prefers chill quiet places.

Aku anak rumahan bget. Aku sukanya kalo pergi bareng yg deket ajaa... Jrg bgt ke cafe2

66 Jonathan's client office turned out to be directly in front of Pricylia's apartment, which they discovered by coincidence.

My client tuh persis dpn apartment u... ASTAGA

67 Pricylia's claw machine luck: her sister tried the claw machine multiple times and failed, but when Pricylia played, she won on the second try.

cc aku crta katanya dia lsg cobain claw machine lg brkali3 tp gada yg brhasil. Pas sm aku lsg kedua dpt

68 Pricylia plays as the 'kelinci orens' (orange rabbit) character in games.

Aku biasa pake yang kelinci orens

The Numbers

69 They exchanged exactly 125,070 messages in 296 days.

That's 518,863 words — equivalent to about 6.5 novels.

70 Jonathan sent 59,780 messages; Pricylia sent 65,290.

She leads 52.2% to his 47.8%.

71 Their busiest day was 2026-01-17 with 2,033 messages.

That's roughly 1 message every 43 seconds for the entire waking day.

72 They averaged 422 messages per day across 264 days.

Spread across 1,683 separate conversations.

73 Their longest active streak is 174 consecutive days.

From 2025-10-02 to 2026-03-24 — and still counting.

74 The longest single conversation marathon lasted 6.9 hours with 679 messages.

Started 2025-07-06 19:12 and ended 2025-07-07 02:06.

75 Pricylia used 18,651 emojis; Jonathan used 1,212.

She uses 15x more emojis. Her top emoji is 🤣 (3,062 times).

76 Their Gottman positivity ratio is 139.6:1.

6,978 positive interactions vs only 50 negative ones. Healthy threshold is 5:1.

77 Pricylia sent 8,334 excited messages; Jonathan sent 1,372.

She's 6x more expressive with excitement markers (caps, exclamation marks, etc).

78 Jonathan's longest message burst was 396 consecutive messages.

When he has something to say, he REALLY has something to say.

79 They said Good Morning 488 times and Good Night 976 times.

Pricylia says GM first 133x vs Jonathan's 65x.

How They Love

80 Pricylia says Jonathan 'smells so nice' and she keeps nempel (sticking close). His scent lingers on her hands after dates.

Also u smelllll so nice maybe thats why aku nempel mulu juga lol... Tgn aku udah bau km itu td

81 Jonathan compared their relationship to the movie '500 Days of Summer' early on - calling it a 'romcom start and romcom movie ending.'

It had a romcom start, and a romcom movie ending... Hahaha its like the movie 100 days of summer

82 Jonathan described Pricylia as his 'muse' after their early dates, taking candid photos of her at Taman Ismail Marzuki.

Btw ternyata ada bnyk foto2 lucu jg with you being the muse haha

83 'Sayang' was used 1,354 times across both of them.

Pricylia: 735 times. Jonathan: 448 times. First used by Pricylia on June 5.

84 Jonathan's love language is Quality Time (705); Pricylia's is Words of Affirmation (698).

He shows love by being present; she shows love by saying it.

Celebrations

85 Their anniversary date is the 15th of every month. They celebrate monthly.

Happy 1 month togetherrr yaa hehehee!... tiap bulan tgl 15 pas kt perayaan ganti bulan

86 For their 1-month anniversary (15 Dec 2025), Pricylia wrote: 'It's only been a month but you already feel like home.'

It's only been a month but you already feel like home❤️ happy and grateful to call you mine!

87 For 2-month anniversary, Jonathan called Pricylia: 'my muse, my attention snatcher, my lucky charm, my happy magnet and my lovely hug buddy.'

Happy 2 months my dearest Pricylia, my muse, my attention snatcher, my lucky charm, my happy magnet and my lovely hug buddy

88 Jonathan's birthday is 7 November (7/11 = Slurpee Day). He celebrates with a 'global slushie day.'

My bday kan 7 nov, jadi 7/11 slushie day... So i celebrate by having global slushie day

89 Pricylia was the first person to wish Jonathan happy birthday, right at midnight (00:00) on 7 November 2025.

Happy birthday Jona!!! 🥳... You're the first to congratulate me!... Passsss 00.00

90 Pricylia's every birthday tradition: eating at Sushi Tei. Her best friends give her a 'sushi bday platter' instead of a birthday cake.

Aku tiap ultah ke sushitei😭... my besties ga ngasih kue ultah tp ngasihnya sushi bday platter dr sushitei

Gifts & Gestures

91 For Jonathan's birthday, Pricylia gave him a wrapped gift with ting ting candy, stickers, and created an AI song on Suno for him.

Udah boleh dibukaa ya kadonya!... Dengerin masterpiece lah... https://suno.com/s/qC8p0KYxDCkHbQXh

92 Jonathan sent Pricylia a GoFood delivery on 20 Sept 2025 with turmeric ginger shots when she was sick, to boost her immune system.

Jonathan got you a food gift... Ada tumeric ginger shot jg should increase your immune system

93 Jonathan sent Pricylia GoFood a second time on 6 October 2025 to celebrate a betting win.

Jonathan got you a food gift... Celebrate our betting win dongs baha

94 Jonathan created an AI-generated song about Pricylia using Suno, styled like JENNIE's 'Like Jennie' (Brazilian funk phonk kpop trap).

Lol ini AI bikin lagu ttg kamu loh... i describe music style nya kaya like jennie tuh apa, brazilian funk phonk electric kpop trap

95 Jonathan offered to bring Pricylia bubur (porridge) and return her forks when she had a sore throat. She had left 2 forks at his place.

Kalo masih sakit tenggorokan, aku bisa bawain bubur + your forks later this afternoon?

96 Jonathan created 'Edencoin' - turning Eden into a fictional cryptocurrency as a creative 1st birthday gift idea.

For eden's 1st bday, i made him into a currency... did you make an Edencoin?

Fun Rapid-Fire

97 Pricylia won a mask design competition by Love and Flair in 2020. Her black zodiac constellation unisex mask became the best-selling piece.

I was one of the winners of a mask design competition held by Love and Flair in 2020... it also became the best-selling piece

98 Pricylia's very first fashion show (outside graduation) was at Harris Convention Centre in Kelapa Gading in April 2018.

my first fashion show in april 2018 di haris convention centre!

99 Pricylia chose denim and flowers for her JFW competition because her first runway piece was a flower-pattern dress and a denim design earned her first newspaper feature.

My very first runway piece was a dress with flower pattern. Also it was a denim design that earned me my first feature in newspaper

100 Pricylia uses ChatGPT for ideas and health questions. She was impressed that AI is helpful but admits she's 'ga gt paham AI.'

Actually aku ga gt paham AI hahaha. Dr dlu emg not into tech... Tp AI sangat helpful sih emg. Byk dpt ideas, i mean by chatgpt

101 Pricylia asked ChatGPT who would win competitions before matches.

First time tny chatgpt menang siapa

Shrine of Things We Made

71 gifts, songs, apps, drawings, and love letters. Everything we built for each other.

🎵 Songs We Made (16)

Oct 05, 2025
First Suno AI song about Pricylia — 'Like Jennie' style K-pop/Brazilian funk song with lyrics about her, including her nickname 'Ting-Ting'
“Lol ini AI bikin lagu ttg kamu loh... this is crazy good sih... Aku blng mau lagu kaya like jennie,...”
▶ Play on Suno
Oct 29, 2025
Suno AI song — another song made for Pricylia
▶ Play on Suno
Nov 01, 2025
Suno AI song — another song for her
▶ Play on Suno
Nov 03, 2025
Batch of 5 Suno AI songs — made multiple songs including ones about Eden (her nephew)
“(+ 4 more songs shared back to back)”
▶ Play on Suno
Nov 03, 2025
Suno AI song #2 from batch
▶ Play on Suno
Nov 03, 2025
Suno AI song #3 from batch
▶ Play on Suno
Nov 03, 2025
Suno AI song #4 from batch
▶ Play on Suno
Nov 03, 2025
Suno AI song #5 from batch
▶ Play on Suno
Nov 07, 2025
Suno AI song — Pricylia made a Suno song for Jonathan's birthday
▶ Play on Suno
Nov 11, 2025
Suno AI operatic/choir epic soundtrack — made about her 'epic story' of fighting a bug/illness, intentionally funny and dramatic
“I have something for you. For your efforts fighting your bug... Bikin operatic choir epic soundtrack...”
▶ Play on Suno
Nov 11, 2025
Suno AI song — additional version of the epic operatic song
▶ Play on Suno
Jan 07, 2026
Suno AI song — Korean rap style love song for Pricylia, she was moved to tears
“Korean rap style abis ya... 😭😭😭😭😭”
▶ Play on Suno
Jan 17, 2026
Batch of 4 Suno AI songs — multiple versions including some with funny AI-generated voices
“hehehehehe. v2 nya AI nya kadang suka bikin suara sendiri”
▶ Play on Suno
Jan 17, 2026
Suno AI song v2
▶ Play on Suno
Jan 17, 2026
Suno AI song — with AI making its own voice sounds
“AI nya kadang suka bikin suara sendiri”
▶ Play on Suno
Jan 17, 2026
Suno AI song — funny unexpected version
“malah ada yg kaya gini”
▶ Play on Suno

💻 Websites & Apps (9)

Aug 14, 2025
Cross-stitch pattern generator app (Replit) — built an app that converts photos to cross-stitch patterns for Pricylia's fashion/design work
“ehehehe... Eh!! Ahahahhahaha kamu lanjutin? Keren amatt”
Open →
Aug 14, 2025
Cross-stitch pattern generator v2 (Lovable) — improved version of the photo-to-stitch-pattern app
“here is a second version: Hahahaha sgt detail ya. Kayaknya versi ini lebih ok!”
Open →
Sep 12, 2025
Othello online game (Replit) — built an online Othello game so they could play together remotely
“Oooo othello nya! Ok... Keren ya kalo jaman skrg kalo ga ada appnya tinggal bikin aja lol”
Open →
Nov 21, 2025
Style Pilot app (Replit) — built a fashion/style recommendation app, wanting to update his fashion with Pricylia's input
“Wdyt. Aku mau coba update my fashion. As a complete newbie”
Open →
Jan 02, 2026
Othello game updated version — re-shared the Othello game they play together
Open →
Feb 03, 2026
pricylia.com updated — added new content and features to her website
“Sudah di update Nnti pelan2 masukin smua ke website”
Open →
Feb 09, 2026
pricylia.com/valentines — built a special Valentine's Day page on her website
“OmGG!!!”
Open →
Mar 20, 2026
Updated pricylia.com website again
“aku udah update websitenya ya btw”
Open →

🎁 Physical Gifts (18)

Jul 13, 2025
Perfume oil gift — floral scented, reminded him of her fashion patterns
“Thanks for the perfume oil!!! Harum bgt ini baunya familiar bgt. Kayak yg aku sering pake dlu... Itu...”
Jul 17, 2025
Eden (her nephew) sticker pack — created WhatsApp stickers of Eden for their chats
“Did you make eden a sticker??? Kamu bikin brpa banyak stickersnya???”
Aug 21, 2025
Spinning top dice — bought a physical top-die (spinning top + dice combo) for their food-picking tradition
“It was a top die, so it spins like a top, and dice rolling all in 1!”
Aug 26, 2025
Taught her to make a bracelet/gelang — showed her how to make bracelets
“Iya udah bisa bikin gelang”
Aug 30, 2025
Custom WhatsApp sticker packs — Pricylia made stickers of Jonathan and added them to their chat
“Ini aku nambahin stickers buat kamu”
Sep 09, 2025
Google Drive document with photos/memories — shared personal photos and documenting their moments
Open →
Sep 20, 2025
Custom sticker ideas for Jonathan — she came up with new sticker designs of him
“Aku ada ide buat sticker kamu! Nanti ya”
Sep 20, 2025
Multiple sticker packs of Jonathan — made WhatsApp stickers using his photos
“Aku ada ide buat sticker kamu! Nanti ya... Sticker kamu byk yg lucu ngga... Sticker nya aku skrg cum...”
Sep 28, 2025
More sticker packs — continued making stickers, downloaded sticker maker app
“Tggu aku donlod sticker maker nya dulu... I think sticker nya berguna banget”
Nov 07, 2025
Birthday gift package for Jonathan — wrapped gifts she'd been teasing all day, opened at midnight on his birthday (Nov 7). Included jar, book, luggage tag, and other thoughtful items
“Happy birthday Jona!!! Udah boleh dibukaa ya kadonya! Hehe let me know what u think! Hopefully you'l...”
Nov 07, 2025
Jar gift — a jar with notes/items inside, described as 'super melt' and very thoughtful. She spent 2 weeks making it
“Iya km sweet bgt jarnya, bukunya, smua giftsnya thoughtful... Maybe your gift yg jar itu super melt...”
Nov 07, 2025
Book gift — part of the birthday care package
“Iya km sweet bgt jarnya, bukunya, smua giftsnya thoughtful”
Nov 07, 2025
Luggage tag — so he'd remember her when traveling, designed to make him come back sooner
“Km pake ga yg buat tag koper... Itu aku pikir spy km kemana2 igt aku lol. Spy cpet pulang lg”
Dec 22, 2025
Thank you for all the gifts — expressed gratitude for all of Jonathan's accumulated gifts
“Also thank you for all the gifts! ❤️”
Dec 25, 2025
Multiple Christmas gifts — Jonathan gave many gifts for Christmas
“Km natal tahun ini dapet bnyk kado dari aku... Iya nih. Aku belom kasih kamu apa apaaaa. Nanti yaaa...”
Dec 31, 2025
New Year's surprise for Jonathan — she planned a surprise for him before midnight
“Btr lg mau surprisein johnswn trus aku bobo lol... My biggest gift this year... Best gift ever!”
Jan 16, 2026
Care package — she puts tremendous effort into care packages, wrapping gifts like presents from a friend
“I think you also put tremendous effort in the care package you give. Not just to me but to cc and ju...”
Feb 23, 2026
Voice recording gift — recorded a message ending with 'Love you sayang' that moved her to tears
“Aku ngguin km bakal ngmg apa. EH BLGNYA LOVE YOU SAYANG. Manis bgt. Ada gift dari aku... Sayangnya n...”

🎨 Creative Projects (14)

Jun 02, 2025
Dice-based restaurant picker — introduced the idea of rolling dice to pick where to eat, became a recurring tradition
“Then, we roll a dice and see where it lands! Misal: ada 6 area jadi shortlist kita, then roll a lite...”
Jul 03, 2025
Google Doc shared — shared a document with her
Open →
Jul 03, 2025
Google Spreadsheet shared — shared a spreadsheet (likely planning/tracking something together)
Open →
Jul 26, 2025
Painted cups/mugs together — pottery painting date where they painted cups for each other
“Oh iya ya our painted cups!... Aku pas painting cups nya rasanya time passes by slowly. Kamu bahkan...”
Aug 18, 2025
Dice challenge game — introduced rolling dice to decide food and activities together
“Lets roll a dice! Mau ngga di challenge ama dice?”
Aug 21, 2025
Google Doc with AI-generated pattern/design content — saved cross-stitch research into a doc for her
“then, i save it into a google doc like this:”
Open →
Aug 23, 2025
Pricy's Provisions — concept for a website listing all food recommendations from Pricylia
“Pricy's Provisions. Bikin website baru utk list of food from pricy... Bener juga hahahahhahaa pdhal...”
Sep 12, 2025
Chess.com games — started playing chess together online via chess.com app
“Yg chess.com app di app store... Aku mimpi chess”
Open →
Nov 27, 2025
Trivia night — prepared a couples trivia game for them to play together
“Utk siap trivia night... Have fun playing! These can spark amazing conversations, laughter, and even...”
Dec 08, 2025
Digital Christmas card — making a digital Christmas card for Pricylia
“Mau bikin kartu natal digital utk km. Biar km kangen aku. Bahahahahaha”
Dec 26, 2025
Collection of creative works shared — showed CC (Pricylia's friend) all the songs, videos, drawings, stickers, and PPTs he made
“Cc km liat ga lagu2 video2 gambar2 sticker2 ppt nya... Iya. Aku crtain yg ppt. Trus dia cm wow wow....”
Feb 10, 2026
Painting date — planned to get the painting canvas from the apartment for another painting session together
“let me get the painting canvas from the apartment and we can find another place yaaa”
Mar 17, 2026
Notion page for 'Lia Lovers' — planning to create a shared Notion page for their relationship
“Sayng nnti bikin notion page kita yg lia lovers biar bgs ya hehe”
Mar 23, 2026
Notion page follow-up — reminded Pricylia to create the shared Notion page
“lia skrg bs bikin notion page kita tuu hehe”

✉️ Love Letters & Drawings (6)

Jul 27, 2025
Previously drew Katherine (mutual friend) as a gift — fun fact she shared
“Funfact aku prnah gambar dia HAHA lebih ke ikutan ke gambar krn aku mau ngasih gift ke kath sih”
Sep 21, 2025
Found old birthday gift drawing for CC — mentioned she draws gifts for friends
“Oh ya td pas bersih2 ada hdiah gambar aku ke cc pas dia umur 23”
Dec 20, 2025
Drew Jonathan's face — was working on a drawing/sketch of him
“Pas lg buatin muka kamu aja”
Jan 07, 2026
Love letter — a super long love letter that she treasured
“Waaaaa love letternya super panjanggggg... duh sayang bgt sm kamu. Emg kita words bgt... Eh kamu uda...”
Jan 15, 2026
Second love letter — two months in, another love letter that warmed her heart
“Hehehehehe dapat love letter! Warms my heart too sampai degdeg hehe. Two months in, and im still cho...”
Feb 04, 2026
Hand-drawn letter with her face on it — gave Jonathan a handmade letter/drawing
“Aku blg ke imelda aku kasih kamu itu gambar surat yg ada muka aku”

🍜 Care Deliveries (8)

Sep 13, 2025
Shared his work presentation/deck with Pricylia for feedback
“wdyt”
Open →
Sep 13, 2025
Second version of work deck, completely different from first
“Deck: Decknya completely beda”
Open →
Sep 20, 2025
GoFood delivery — sent food with turmeric ginger shot to boost her immune system when she was sick
“Check this out! Jonathan got you a food gift, hope you like it. Track the order here. Hopefully bisa...”
Open →
Sep 24, 2025
Canva presentation deck shared — his conference workshop deck
“Ini decknya. Again lots of words. Because workshop training”
Open →
Oct 06, 2025
GoFood delivery — sent food (popoh/soup obat) when she was unwell
“Check this out! Jonathan got you a food gift, hope you like it. Track the order here.”
Open →
Nov 16, 2025
Canva video — discovered he could make videos with Canva, created content with whoosh effects
“Ternyata bisa bikin video pake canva jg. Kalo pake whoosh gitu”
Open →
Nov 30, 2025
Google Slides presentation shared
Open →
Mar 20, 2026
Personal manual / fun presentation deck shared
“the goal is to show a fun one, yg ada personal manual”
Open →
Jonathan made 51 | Pricylia made 17 | 3 together

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